SCANDAL

*Sigh* dunia mmg nk terbalik da..benda yg dilarang itu lah yg org suka buat..nape ekk..dah ada anak bini or anak suami still nk ade scandal ngn org lain kat luar… tulah topic Hot Chat pg smlm (05082008) kat Hot FM.. SCANDAL.. perghh… ape la nk jd ngn manusia skng.. tak ingat dosa pahala ke, at least ingat anak2 kat umah..

Yg sedihnya bile yg terlibat ngn hubungan terlarang ni both married..msg2 pon ade prob ngn spouse msg2.. ade mslh nape tak settle ngn psngn tu..ni gi tmbah mslh lg ade la..i had read somewhere long time ago,

when u have a problem with ur spouse don’t u ever share or tell the problem with someone which in opposite sex..

soooo dangerous..from sympathy the feel can change to love.. find a person in a same sex, which u trusted.. or just share with siblings..

Teringat lak a case of my bestfriend..im proud of her when she was in trouble with her husband, she shared with me, even though I cant help anything..but I can be a good listener n just gave some advices..n I hope her husband will taking care of their fmly..miss u la my dear Yong..same goes to Yanie.. but she's single dont mind la kalau cr kwn laki..huhu...

But..one of my friend..i hate this type of human..both..huhu..at 1^st she juz befriend with a fiancé of someone..i told her, “ko nak kawan xpe..jgn nti ade feeling dah la.”“Xde la dia nk kwin dah July ni” she replied..at that time lg 2 bulan that guy nak kwin…and guess what..after I back from cuti kawin, she told me that she fall in love with that guy..both of them fall each other…ms tu lg 2 or 3 weeks the guy will nikah..gile ke x giler…and I was a happiest person when she kantoi with her boyfriend..tp her boyfren sgt la baik ati accept blk bdk tu…kalau laki lain dah kene tinggal da weeiii..tu kalau wt hal lg tak taw la..this scandal couple still keep contact even after the guy married..but lately they got quarrel n don’t contact each other..i hope they will lost forever..x baik kacau umah tangga org..kalau org wt kat kite mcm mane..pk la perasaan bini org tu..msti sedih kalau taw laki dia mcm tu..

Ok…from the callers..all of them which entangle in scandal got less concern or care from their spouses..the spouse is a workaholic..bz all the time n don’t spent a time with fmly even on weekend..try la to understand a spouse’s work..we marrying with her/him, we also have to marry with her/his job..as myself..im trying my best to understand my hubby's job although it soo hard..

Actly I had many experience around me with this topic, but I hope whose involved with this problem please stop this illegal relation b4 this thing will destroy ur life..n I hope they are not doing anything yg jatuh hukum dosa besar..ZINA..ye la kalau org dah kwin ni mmg sgt bijak berkata2 n berpengalaman…lg2 kalau x dpt lynn..gersang..huhu

Some advices for them, also to myself n hubby, if we had a problem don’t keep it by ourself..face to face with the spouse n discuss from heart to heart..biar la time tu nk gado ke ape tp at least kite taw ape yg kurang n tak puas ati..after that try to do our best to make our fmly live blissfully..jgn main ckp belakang n ngadu kat org lain but another side tak taw ape yg xkene..taw2 je name busuk n org lain pndg rndh kat dia.berbincang n perbaiki kelemahan..most important thing is don’t forget ALLAH.. solat n berdoa la.. smbhyang tu kn tiang agama.. insyaAllah Allah sntiasa ingat hmba yg mengingatiNya.. ejau mcm jd ustazah dah skng ni..fullstop

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mmm..x dpt lg album..blk last week x smpt jupe kak ti..tensen sungguh..sia2 je blk..tp xpela..dpt jupe mak, ayah..mnja2 ngn mak..maman jgn jeles arrr..mkn mskn mak..udang smbal..syiok wooo..wpon xleh mkn tp bedal gk.patu mkn la ubat..huhu...nk gi central hafiz, adik sedara anta ngn awek dia..mmm nk soh kak ti post dia cas lain lak..gpon dia tgh bz tak taw bile leh post..nk dlm minggu ni gk klau leh..lama sgt dah...

arini Mr Hubby start naik kapal..whats ur ship's name dear?? x ingat la..kapal tu prob ckit so xleh blayar..B dok kapal tgk n belajar ape yg patut..mainly about the engine..belajar rajin2 taw..next year leh naik pngkat..mm b kene kurung dlm kapal for 3 days starting today..tp seb baik la ade line..leh sms n call..tp tak rncak sgt coz he sooo bz..new training place, but still at KK, n he have to learn n adapt himself..skng b dok bilik bujang ngn Bell n Pari..hope everything will be ok with ur roommates..

yeah..good news is he asked me to go to KK next week..yeehaaa..but not confirm yet..tak mo la hepi sgt nti tak jd gi kiciwa lg..hrp2 this time jd la jupe..maybe the 1st n last we meet b4 raya..so pity huh?? nk wt mcm mane..ktorg bkn cop duit leh jupe every week..kalau takat Lumut - JB leh la...huhu...

B..keje leklok taw..jg diri n kesihatan tuh.get enaf sleep n rest..joli, joli gk tp solat jgn tinggal.wt sit up biar perut tu kempis ckit ni mcm org preggy je..huhu.i love u so muchh.muaahhh...

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mak sll pesan kalau siang ari gembira sgt nti mlm lain yg jadi..mmm..tu la yg berlaku pd dr ku ini...huhu..ape yg jd ???
x la teruk sgt tp rugi gk la RM14.60...
duit ape tu???
tu la nilai tmbang bus dr JB ke Melaka..ade phm???
x phm lg??
kene beli tiket lain sbb dah kene tinggal ngn bus..huhu...arini dlm sejarah tol..xpnh2 kene tinggal wpon slmba je gerak lmbt..share ngn KKKL tu dah kene lelong kot...sampai ati...

waaaa sedihnya...xtaw nape sedih sgt..bkn sbb kene tinggal bus..nehi.nehi...mmg smnjak 2 ni cpt tol sedih..rndu org yg jauh di mata~tp dkt di hati..InsyaAllah...

rndu B yg akn start trainig lain minggu dpn..msti dok atas kapal je wpon x blyar..nk kene repair kpl n blajar psl kapal tu..susah la nk sms..1st oct ade possibility b gi blayar ke Korea..ya Allah..Kau kuatkan la ati hambaMu ini..yg dekat ni pon tak tertanggung rindu..ni kn pulak belyar..gi sana je mau mkn ms 1bln..gi blk 2bln la..tu atas kpl..ade line x..cmne nk sms..nk 3G lg..huuuuu..sedih..cmne idop tnpa B.msti sunyi..
rndu mak n ayah yg suke sakat wt yg lain mrh n senyum sndiri~ktorg yg geram dgr n tgk.. abg gg yg lbh prihatin kat adik yg lain, kak iza yg~ingt la psn org aritu..huhu.., azief yg botak~geramnye kat takcik niii, ijai yg sgt protective, ajim yg suke nyakat, maman yg syg org lain dr org..huhu...along hasri xleh rndu..bhya..laki org tuu...
nape sdh bile teringat semua..ati kosong...rindu...adekah org je yg rndu n ingt yg lain..huuu...b pon mcm x ksh je x jupe..betol2 lost...*sad*

td YM ngn Ras..after dia taw keadaan ktorg yg PJJ~perkahwinan jarak jauh, dia ckp "kau mmg tabah. smga jd isteri mithali" mudah2an la...td Ilah dtg dia ckp "mmg la..isteri navy mmg tabah.." tabah ke ejau? br tuhan uji ckit, dgn cacian org yg jiwa kacau, dah xleh kwl amarah..biar la..smga Allah bukakan pntu ati mereka utk berubah...

td ade somebody tglkn msg kat shout out blog..sape kah dia..x taw la plak..then bkk la blog dier..wooo..wife of navy also..ade la bc blog dia ckit sbb nk taw siapa dia..hi PN EPI..slmt bknalan..may be kite leh jd fren once my hubby n i pndah Lumut, tu pon if u both ade sana lg la..ok lets continue..mmm x sngup nk baca blog dia abis2..takot nti sedih sndri..keadaan kami lbh kurang sama.but she's lucky..leh gk dok ngn husband wpon laki sll out station...me?? 2 weeks only we spent time together...mber yg dgr sume ckp "siannye ko"..ye..mmg sgt kesian.but who's care..apekan daya..ini plhn kami..ktorg kene lalui dgn tabah...smga dgn kejauhan ~ wujud ke perkataan ni~ kami akn lbh bljar menghargai dan memahami each other..

Tiap org Allah akn uji ikot kemampuan msg2..tak perlu menangisi ape yg terjadi kerana tiap yg terjadi Allah janjikn dgn yg lbh baik.tak perlu mengungkit kerana ape yg telah terjadi msti ade hikmahnya.itu kuasa dan ketentuan Nya..kite hnya manusia yg lemah yg hnya mampu merancang..tp Allah jua yg tentukan segalanya..tabah la wahai hati dlm mghadapi ranjau idop ini..pjlanan msh jauh dan mcm2 yg perlu kt tempuhi kelak..smga Allah tetapkn ati kite dgn iman, penuhi ati kite dgn kasih syg yg berpanjangan..